Showing posts with label Self-Help. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Self-Help. Show all posts

Saturday, December 19, 2020

The 4% Fix by Karma Brown

A special thank you to the author, Karma Brown, for an ARC and to NetGalley for an ALC in exchange for an honest review.

If you think that there aren't enough hours in the day for you to be creative, or to dedicate yourself to something you are passionate about, let Karma Brown's The 4% Fix show you how to find the time without sacrificing your other commitments. This is not a book filled with jargon and spreadsheets—Brown provides her readers with a solid, practical approach that's infused with humour and personal experience.

How will you use this one hour—only 4% of your day—to change your life?

We are all busy and overwhelmed with responsibilities and daily tasks, and feel like we have no time or motivation. The 4% Fix is about finding an hour that is yours to harness, to exploit, or to take on a project that you want to do. You may be wondering where you are supposed to come up with an extra hour when you are already feeling like you don't have enough time to accomplish what is already on your plate. Brown's solution is to wake up an hour earlier each day. She gets up at 5 a.m. to write all of her books and has been doing so for years. For Karma, it is the right time to carve out that hour that is just for her—it's pretty quiet at 5 a.m. Yet for the sleep deprived, this sounds impossible and quite frankly, unappealing. But the idea is to find that hour to dedicate it to yourself and to make it a habit.  

Brown's cake analogy is that there are 24 pieces of cake—one for every hour of the day—yet in your life is made up of cake-loving people and everyone wants some. It’s delicious...I mean who doesn't love cake? And there are the other things in your day like work, commitments, running errands, etc., that also take their slices. But quite simply, if you don’t serve yourself first, you will be left with just crumbs. Even if you take your slice and tuck it away for later, you still need to take that first piece—have your cake and eat it too! 

The 4% Fix is part how-to and part motivation. In a refreshing and gentle way, Karma shares the latest research about time management and goal setting, as well as what strategies have worked for her. Brown's first non-fiction project is enjoyable, helpful, and practical. It it is the perfect book to kick off your year and will help you be more productive, purposeful, and focused. One hour can change your life!


KARMA BROWN is an award-winning journalist and author of the bestsellers Come Away With MeThe Choices We MakeIn This Moment, The Life Lucy Knew, and Recipe for a Perfect Wife. In addition to her novels, Karma's writing has appeared in publications such as RedbookSELF, and Chatelaine.

Brown lives just outside Toronto, Canada with her husband, daughter, and their adorably handsome labradoodle, Fred.



Q & A with Karma Brown*

GWR: 
The structure of The 4% Fix is very digestible. Did you always have it planned out this way or was it something that came about as you started writing? 

KB: Thank you! As I was writing, I had one goal: for it to be easy to read and easy to follow. I also wanted the book to be equal parts entertaining and inspiring, but without complicated time management strategies or too heavily burdened by research. The book evolved as I went, as books do, but that original goal stayed top of mind.  

GWR: I love the quotes. Do you have a favorite? Are there any others that didn’t make the cut that still resonate with you?

KB: It’s always hard to choose a favourite, but the one that still resonates most strongly is the meditation from Ojibway writer Richard Wagamese’s EMBERS: Nothing in the universe ever grew from the outside in. 

GWR: Did your writing process differ because this was a non-fiction book? 

KB: Yes, and that was a surprise. After writing five novels (well, seven if you count my first two that will remain work-in-progress books in a dark drawer) I thought I had a solid handle on my “process.” Turns out this book about getting up early to harness the power of an untapped hour refused to be written in the pre-dawn morning! So my book about rising for the #5amwritersclub would not be written at 5 a.m. It was a revelation when I finally realized the issue, and then I simply shifted my writing time a touch later, which worked much better. 

GRW: Obviously your journalism background played a huge part—tell me about the research you did for the novel. 

KB: As a freelance journalist I’ve done a lot of interviews, and that muscle memory remained even though these days I’m mostly writing fiction. Having said that, I do lot of research for my novels, particularly Recipe for a Perfect Wife and my current one, as they both have significant historical elements. I also love the research element of writing, so it was fun to dive back into that in a non-fiction environment for The 4% Fix. It’s always a good writing day when you get to connect with interesting people and their stories. 

GRW: Which subjects do you wish more authors would write about?

KB: I am endlessly fascinated with stories of motherhood, both in fiction and non-fiction, and the messier side of what it means to be an ambitious woman while simultaneously raising children. While I am interested in so many topics (the list is truly endless), I am drawn to women’s stories in all the different shapes those take. 

GRW: What made you decide to write this book?

KB: I was approached by HarperCollins Canada to write a book about my 5 a.m. writing habit, and the many benefits I’ve found from sticking with it over the years. I had never planned to write a non-fiction book, but I’ve also learned to never say never, because you have no idea what opportunities might come your way.  

GRW: Would you ever write another non-fiction book? 

KB: Never say never!

GWR: Can you share what you’re working on now? 

KB: I’m currently working on my next fiction project, which is a dual timeline novel set in 1975 and 2019. The story follows an aspiring screenwriter and her fiancé who make a gruesome discovery while in the Adirondacks—solving a decades-long mystery connected to a local feminist in 1975, whose own story plays out through the pages. It’s about the cost of ambition, the pull of agency, and how the truth won’t stay buried forever. 

*A version of this post was published on STYLE Canada.  

Sunday, February 24, 2019

Girl, Stop Apologizing by Rachel Hollis

A special thank you to HarperCollins Canada for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.

Hollis's goal is to help women unpack unpack the crippling mind-sets that destroy their self-confidence and keep them from moving forward and reaching their full potential.

While she may not be the most radical in the self-help field—after all, a lot of what she is saying is common sense—her heart is in the right place. Hollis's message is simple: women spend too much time apologizing for who they are and don't voice what it is that they want. She reminds us to take 'me' time. So often we don't recharge our own batteries and are left bitter, angry, and exhausted because we have sacrificed ourself in order to make everyone else happy. Sound familiar?

As Rachel Hollis says in the book, "Girl, you do you!".  If you are finding parts of the book are either not applicable, or simply not your bag, move along. Take what applies to you and your life/situation and listen to what she has to say. Her followers love her no-nonsense approach and bluntness. It's like having a good ol' gab with a girlfriend. A friend that is trying to talk you into buying the dress that looks fab on you when you are doubting yourself. Or the friend that gives it to you straight because they care.

Hollis is unapologetic. You are always going to be too much something for someone, and not enough something for someone else. We only need to be enough for ourselves and more importantly, believe in ourselves.

I did prefer the format for Girl, Wash Your Face. Hollis started each chapter with an anecdote (often Google-worthy) in the form of a lie that she once believed, followed by things that helped her overcome the lie. This book is a little different in that it is divided into three sections—Excuses, Behaviors (Behaviours if you are in Canada), and Skills. It was a little heavy on the excuse section which is probably why she changed the format, but stick with it because her trademark honestly, cheeky humour, and effort are abundant.

RACHEL HOLLIS is a New York Times best-selling author (Girl, Wash Your Face), a TV personality, motivational speaker, podcast host, and CCO of The Hollis Company.  

She resides just outside of Austin, Texas with her husband, Dave, and four children.

Sunday, May 27, 2018

Laughter from the Darkside by Tracy Jane Hartman

A special thank you to the author for providing a copy of the book in exchange for an honest review.

In Laughter from the Darkside, Tracy Jane Hartman gives a first hand account of what life is like with an autistic child (from birth to teenager).  Hartman's memoir is moving, yet funny.  She is steadfast in her positivity, is respectful, and relies on humour to see her through the struggles.

Although not a practitioner of any kind, she does offer advice as to what has worked for her, and readers may also find value in her research/tips.  I enjoyed this quick read—Tracy is warm, witty, and a positive voice.  I encourage any parent to pick up this book, it is not just for those in the same situation, there is value to her approach.

Monday, August 7, 2017

Healthy Healing: A Guide to Working Out Grief Using the Power of Exercise and Endorphins by Michelle Steinke-Baumgard

A special thank you to Edelweiss and HarperCollins for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.

After losing her husband in a tragic plane crash, Michelle Steinke-Baumgard faced the darkest moment of her life.  Widowed, with two young children, Michelle confronted her grief head on by choosing to strengthen her body, mind, and spirit.  In doing so, Michelle rediscovered happiness through fitness and wellness.  

Please don't let the title sway you into thinking that you have had to experience a loss to benefit from Michelle Steinke-Baumgard's book.  She addresses the physical, mental, and emotional effects of grief juxtaposed against healthy eating and exercise in a 12-week plan that anyone can use.

Steinke-Baumgard dispels a lot of the myths not only surrounding grief, but also with diet and exercise.  There is no one-size-fits-all in grieving, healthy living, or wellness—Michelle tackles these myths with knowledge and personal experience.  Her approach is kind, motivational, and above all, honest.  She has a huge following from her One Fit Widow community where she provides the same support, candor, and honesty to her followers (you can check her out on social media).  Michelle is a wonderful writer and I have been following her for a while now.

If you are even remotely considering changing your lifestyle, and/or are struggling with grief, pick up this book.  Not only will your body thank you, but in times of loss, your heart and soul will thank you.  Michelle, you are a wonderful role model, woman, and coach—thank you for sharing your personal story of loss, your fitness journey, and your knowledge.  

Thursday, March 16, 2017

Conversations with God Book 4 Awaken the Species, A New and Unexpected Dialogue by Neale Donald Walsch

A special thank you to NetGalley and Watkins Publishing for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.

The previous three books in the series were so well done.  I had the pleasure of listening to the audiobooks, and I got a lot out of them.  I encourage you to pick them up or give them a listen.  Unfortunately, I can't say the same for this book.  Maybe it's just me, or perhaps I'm just not on the same page (pardon the pun) spiritually as this book, but I simply just didn't "get" it and it didn't resonate the same way as the others did.

What I did like was the question and answer section, there was value there, it was well executed, and tied the books nicely together.  There were some interesting and thought-provoking sections, but there was a lot that was just lost on me, and I felt like it was just out of my reach.


Thursday, December 10, 2015

The 20/20 Diet: Turn Your Weight Loss Vision Into Reality by Phillip C. McGraw

A special thank you to NetGalley for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.

This book was a solid 2.5 out of 5 for me.  There was some really great information here, but completely bogged down by the Dr. Phil-isms, but I guess that's why people are going to buy this book.  He has some good tips and breaks things down into more palatable sections, but there is nothing new here.

Sunday, April 26, 2015

Better Than Before: Mastering the Habits of Our Everyday Lives by Gretchen Rubin

A special thank you to NetGalley for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.

I liked this book much better than her other two books. My problem with Gretchen Rubin is that she constantly reminds us that she has a blog, and mentions her husband and children way too much. There are so many good nuggets in the book that she could flesh out, she doesn't need to consistently tell us about her privileged lifestyle, her blog, Jamie, Eleanor and Eliza.

At times I found her preachy.  She certainly doesn't do herself any favours when she recounts conversations that she has with people as she sounds completely righteous.

Like I said there were a lot of good takeaways from the book - I wish she had of expanded upon those and done away with all of the personal fluff.