Friday, May 22, 2020

Recipe for a Perfect Wife by Karma Brown

A special thank you to NetGalley, Edelweiss, Penguin Random House Canada, and Penguin/Dutton for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.

Recipe for a Perfect Wife is a dual narrative novel wherein a modern woman finds inspiration from a 1950s housewife in the form of a cookbook and handwritten notes.

Alice Hale has left not only her career in publicity, but the city she loves, and finds herself in the suburbs attempting to write a novel. In the basement of her fixer upper century home, she uncovers a well-loved cookbook and within its pages, notations and handwritten letters. She comes to learn that they are written by the previous home owner, Nellie Murdoch, to her mother.

Feeling inspired, and an affinity towards Nellie, Alice starts cooking from her recipes and wearing vintage clothing. As she experiments with the tried-and-true recipes, she uncovers a dangerous side to Nellie's marriage and comes to the realization that she too is unhappy with the pressures that are also in her relationship. Alice begins to take control of her life and like Nellie, arms herself with some secrets of her own.

The dual narrative was the perfect vehicle to tell this story. The chapters alternate between Nellie's narrative, and Alice learning about Nellie's past which she uses to frame her own marriage. Nellie's chapters begin with (often shocking) marital advice, whereas Alice's open with recipes from the cookbook.

adore Karma's writing and this book delivered! Both storylines are equally well-written and engaging—I found myself completely immersed in the narratives and didn't favour one over the other. The women are highly developed and complex, yet there is an intimacy that the reader will feel with them. Alice and Nellie have tremendous depth and incredible strength.

What I most appreciated was Brown tackling some weighty and timely topics, keeping the spotlight on the issues that many women face and can relate to: white male privilege, inequality, misogyny, abuse, and reproductive rights. It is a comment on how women are confined by the limited number of choices they have in order to conform with what is expected of them. Many women are completely stifled in their lives, and lose a sense of who they are after becoming wives and/or mothers.

True to her style, the ending is not wrapped up with a bow and presented to the reader. Instead, there is a satisfying conclusion, leaving her audience with some sense of closure, but also left pondering. As such, this would make a fantastic book club choice.

Congratulations, Karma! This is a truly remarkable book.

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KARMA BROWN is an award-winning journalist and author of the bestsellers Come Away With Me, The Choices We MakeIn This Moment, and The Life Lucy Knew. In addition to her novels, Karma's writing has appeared in publications such as Redbook, SELF, and Chatelaine.

Brown lives just outside Toronto, Canada with her husband, daughter, and their adorably handsome labradoodle, Fred.



Q & A with Karma Brown*

GWR: Can you tell me a little bit about the research you did for Recipe for a Perfect Wife?

KB: I’m a former journalist, so sourcing people, things, quotes…it’s my go-to. But this novel was my first stab at writing historical fiction and I knew the research would be more intense, as I wanted those 1950s sections to feel authentic. A lot of the research was anecdotal—I had many conversations with my parents and read first-hand accounts of life in the 1950s—but I also watched dozens of home economics videos from that decade, and went through stacks of old magazines and newspaper clippings from that era. Finally, the recipes: though I didn’t make all of the recipes in the book (I’m a vegetarian, so meatloaf is never on the menu), my daughter and I tackled a handful. Most impressively, the Baked Alaska!

GWR: What’s the inspiration behind Recipe for a Perfect Wife?

KB: My mom gave me a few vintage cookbooks that had been passed down through our family, and there was one in particular—a Canadian cookbook called The Purity Cookbook from the 1940s—that inspired Nellie’s 1950s character. I had a clear image of Nellie, smoking one of her cigarettes out in her beloved garden, flipping through this cookbook and searching for a dinner recipe. Her life looked simple on the surface—the quintessential housewife—but I knew underneath the façade there was a lot more to Nellie. Everything started from that one scene, actually.

GWR: Do you have a favourite character?

KB: It’s impossible for me to choose, to be honest. Though I will say I loved writing the two older women—Miriam in the 1950s and Sally, her daughter, in the present day—into the story. They both acted as surrogate mothers for my main characters, Nellie and Alice, and offered wisdom, kindness and guidance for these younger women.

GWR: One of my favourite quotes in the book is: “Sally, the hardest question we have to ask ourselves in this life is, ‘Who am I?’. Ideally, we answer it for ourselves, but be warned that others will strive to do it for you—so don’t let them.” It’s so powerful. Did you receive this advice at some point in your life?

KB: It isn’t advice I received, but something I saw one afternoon when I was procrastibaking (procrastinating via baking) and watching Netflix. It was a soapy FBI show, and the main character, who was struggling to find her footing, was told to ask herself who she wanted to be. I immediately went and wrote it down… because it was a perfect theme for the book and precisely the advice I imagined Sally imparting to Alice. Who says bingeing Netflix can’t be considered, ‘working’?

GWR: Recipe for a Perfect Wife has been categorized as historical fiction and somewhat of a ‘departure’ for you. How did the writing process differ? Were there any challenges to writing historical fiction?

KB: I research every book I write, and whether it’s a setting or a character’s career or a medical condition, there’s always so much to learn. But with historical fiction it wasn’t only accurate details I had to worry about. It was also capturing the flavour and ambiance of the decade—including language, fashion, social norms—and being able to translate those on to the page. It was a challenge, but it was fun and I loved every bit of it.

GWR: Each of Alice’s chapters open with a piece of advice from various publications. What surprised you most about these?

KB: Aside from the fact that they even exist? Probably how widespread and longstanding this misogyny and inequality really was… and in more subtle ways, how it continues today. There are snippets of advice from the early 1900s up to the 1960s…and in all cases the general consensus was this: a woman only gets to be happy if she makes a man happy first.

GWR: What was the hardest scene to write?

KB: There’s a scene with Nellie and her husband Richard that takes place in their living room, and it’s violent and tragic and awful, yet I know many women in those times endured similar situations. As a woman it was a tough scene to write.

GWR: What are you working on now?

KB: I have a non-fiction book coming out with HarperCollins Canada in December 2020 called THE 4% FIX: How one hour can change your life, and it delves into my 5 a.m. writing habit, as well as how protecting your time is the best investment you can make. And I’ve just started working on my next novel, which is set in the Adirondacks and again will be a dual narrative story shifting between the 1970s (and the second wave of feminism) and the present day. Look for that one sometime in 2022!

*A version of this post was published on STYLE Canada

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